When you are out with her, the last thing you want to do is come off looking bored. If you act like you are not having fun, then chances are she is not having fun. Unless the date is going bad and you could care less about a second one, you need to liven things up! So you took her somewhere thinking it would be a blast and it didn’t turn out. Maybe she’s really not into watching the Monday Night Football game at the bar as much as you thought. Well, that is why you made a backup plan! You should always have some alternatives in case she is not having a good time.

You know, a lot of this dating crap is thrown at the guy and is made his responsibility, even though we are well into the age of equal rights. I didn’t make this rule and it’s not likely to change in the near future, but it is still usually our responsibility, like it or not. If you are good at the dating game, you will get rewarded more times than not. I’ve had many second or third dates that were planned by her since she was so impressed on how I planned our first date. Just give your dates a well planned out evening and you will likely not have to suffer the boring date. Another tip is to ask women around you about some great places to take your date.


by William Edwards